Rape and Gun Memes

rape shootingsI’ve seen two memes on Facebook recently that satirically “explain” the singular causes of rape and mass shootings. As much as I appreciate what these memes get at (namely: criminals should be held fully accountable for their actions), the rhetorical effect suggests that dress attire, alcohol, walking alone in high-risk areas are not aggravating factors (“causes”) of rape, which isn’t true. Likewise that unrestricted access to guns cannot be viewed as significantly enabling a killer’s success. And note the hypocrisy: liberals brandish the rape meme, conservatives the gun meme, both equally unwisely.

With regards to the rape meme: It’s irresponsible to expect rapists to behave themselves as we educate the world about rape culture. The reality is that rapists will be rapists and certain behaviors enable their success. That’s not victim-blaming; it’s common sense. The rapist should always get the full 100%-blame in a court of law, but people should also be smart enough about their own safety to apply measures of preventive maintenance as situations warrant. The same is true of any crime: If I walk alone at night in a crime-infested city area and get mugged, the mugger is fully accountable. But I was acting very stupidly.

With regards to the gun meme: It’s equally irresponsible to not regulate guns — and actually permit the sale of assault weapons — in the expectation that all citizens are decent and mentally stable. In the U.S. we’re long overdue for tighter gun control. Allow me the caveat I’ve added elsewhere: I don’t believe for a moment that better gun control will reduce the number of mass killings (full explanation here). But better gun control will at least go a long way to curtailing gun deaths resulting from domestic abuse, accidents involving children, and hard-core criminals who shouldn’t own a gun at all.

These memes do emphasize where full accountability lies, and yes, that’s important. But they are ultimately naïve.

Safety Tip: Carbon Monoxide Detectors


No, I don’t work for the Fire Department, but I am a public servant, so take this as free safety advice. Smart home owners use CO detectors, while those of us who think we’re smart don’t give them much thought until something scary happens.

In my case over a week ago, I noticed a “burnt” smell emanating from my utilities room. I went in and found that the top of my hot water heater was over heating like Dante’s Inferno, and so assumed something was wrong with the heater. Not so. Professionals came and found the heater was perfectly fine. What they did find was that a bunch of sheet-rock had collapsed in the chimney, preventing gasses from escaping, backdrafting back down onto the water heater and into my home, which included carbon monoxide. Someone else in my condominium area had a similar problem only a few months ago, and almost died for it. Thanks to the prompt professional responses, my chimney was cleaned that day; the heat and hot water swiftly restored. I was advised to get a CO detector — as if I needed persuading. Hell, I bought two. I chose a digital-display model (see above), which should read “0” most of the time, allowing for the occasional 1-30 PPM which, according to the instructions manual, “can often occur in normal everyday conditions”. When the display reads higher than 30, the alarm goes off. You can buy other alarms which trigger at 50. And according to some wisdom, healthy adults can tolerate up to 70 PPMs if the exposure isn’t long-term.

I wish I could have seen the PPM readings before my gas was shut off and the chimney cleaned. Because I apprehended the problem right away, and threw open all my sliding windows (in my living room and bedroom), I didn’t get sick. But I’ve no idea how much CO was in my home, especially my utilities room. My plumber guessed, based on the amount of sheet-rock taking up the chimney — there was one piece in particular that was almost completely blocking the passage — that it could have been anywhere between 100-600 PPMs in the utilities room with the door closed. Some fraction of that would have seeped into the rest of my home, and obviously if left unfixed, over time, even more.

Before last week, I didn’t know what “PPM”s were. “Parts per million” means the number of CO molecules in every million molecules of air (so, for example, 100 PPM of carbon monoxide means that for every 999,900 molecules of air, there are 100 molecules of CO). Here is the danger chart. A recent study found that the average peak CO levels during home alarm incidents was 452 PPMs.